It’s Not Just Sex – Why People Have Affairs

It’s Not Just Sex – Why People Have Affairs

It is said that cheating is never a mistake, it is a choice. Indeed, I personally think that this is a correct saying. No one cheat unintentionally, a person who cheats is by choice, that’s why one doesn’t want his or her partner to know. Well, here I will note a few causes of cheating that can save up your falling relationship if you start caring about it now.

When you don’t enjoy each other’s company

There are many love stories where a guy likes something about the girl and the girl likes something about a guy, but one thing is very common and that is each other’s company. When two people meet and when they feel that their view about life, about the world is similar, they tend to get closer. However, after sometime you may stop enjoying the company of your partner. Like, things you used to like about your partner when you were young, you hate it now. This is the main reason why couple break-up. When a couple doesn’t find each other interesting, they tend to look out for something interesting to do and due to this you start spending lesser time with your partner and misunderstanding starts occurring. Due to these misunderstandings, there are fights more often and at last it results in any one person cheating on the other or both are cheating on each other.

Sex is not interesting, fantasies are

When two people are young, and they come to know about sex, the start having it and enjoying it. They try different things to keep it interesting. However, when one partner doesn’t take any interest in another person, cheating happens. Every human being on this planet has unfulfilled sexual fantasies, that is why there are sex plays like kinky fun, BDSM paly, oral sex and more. It is said that having sex connects soul but when you stop enjoying sex with your partner, because your partner doesn’t have time for you to be your partner in crime to play different sex plays, one person starts getting frustrated and this sexual frustration leads to cheating. As said above, it takes two to tango, so ruining relationship and cheating on your partner is very easy, but what the hard part is to do everything and anything to be with your partner. Be loyal and you know that hiring an escort to fulfill your sexual desire doesn’t count in cheating: